How I’m learning to care less about what people think

We live in other people’s heads. This is something I've never quite been able to understand. That every person you ever meet will have a different opinion of you. Their general description of you might be similar "she is kind" or "she is funny", "she laughs a lot", but their opinions of you will all … Continue reading How I’m learning to care less about what people think

A message for those who say “suicide is selfish”

To anyone who says “suicide is selfish” here’s an analogy for you (not the best analogy but an analogy nevertheless). You’re in your room and a fire starts. You don’t see to it right away because you’re busy focusing on things you think are more important, perhaps looking after a loved one or getting through … Continue reading A message for those who say “suicide is selfish”

Stop letting perfectionism and superficiality destroy our generation’s mental health

I'm homesick for a place that I'm not even sure exists. One where hearts are full, conversations are intellectual, funny & deep and where superficiality doesn't exist. I can just picture it now; it's a place that promotes natural beauty, where everyone is emotionally and comedically intelligent, full of days & nights that aren't centred so … Continue reading Stop letting perfectionism and superficiality destroy our generation’s mental health

I’m choosing to put my mental well-being over body image and here’s why

Starting from such a young age, I've always struggled with body image. In primary school, I questioned why I had curves so young when majority of the girls in my class didn't. I remember returning home on the day that I received my first 'fat' insult and I quizzed my mum "am I fat? if … Continue reading I’m choosing to put my mental well-being over body image and here’s why